Are You To Sexy For Your Shirt? Take the test.

Okay, I shamelessly admit that I (Alison) am waiting for her (Lexi) to take over daily writing on THM while I finish the last bit of the Soul Thief.  The book is rocking.  I’ve been writing and writing, and it’s like a movie flowing out of my head.  Be excited, people, you were here to make history with me.   After I just lost the only community that I’ve ever known through the betrayal of what used to be my best friend…like I needed to be more hurt than I have already been by the person that promised me he’d protect me….there is life in the ashes. 

I am reborn a new thing.  For all of you that are wondering how to get through it all all?  Just look around you, loves.  There is life. There is life.

My God, the last chapter that I wrote had me in tears, and I’ve been living with my Lucian for a long, long time.  I’m in love with this book.  Just when you think that you can’t hold on any longer, people, hold on just a little longer.  I thought I was lost not to many months ago in my dark night of the soul.  Now, every dream seems to be coming true.  Hold on, have faith, keep on moving with the grace and dignity and grace God gave you.  I send you love, light and happiness.

Still, I have emails from today that I haven’t opened – we actually hit 10,000 on our website in the past three weeks, WOW….however, our lucky winner from Australia asks in response to the Sex Goddess series “How do I know if I am Sexy?”  Really? You’ve read everything I’ve written and you still aren’t listening to music, saying affirmations and loving the beach.  Baby, you’re one of my first videos, I promise.  Life is to short to feel like the ugly duckling.  Btw….YOU’RE not.  Come on girl.  Confidence in the unique and crazy girl that God made you to be.

Alright, let’s just end all the questions. I call on the great people at, who offer this bit of advice….. (source:

The definition of sexy varies greatly from person to person, but most people would agree that there are some common qualities in a “sexy” person. For this sexy test, three attributes have been chose to define sexiness: image, confidence, and attitude.

Image: A person who is sexy would have a high self-image, and others would view them as having so. Face it, someone who doesn’t groom, brush their teeth, use underarm deodorant, etc… would not be very sexy to most people.

You are what you believe you can be. Nothing is beings within.

Confidence: Simply stated, someone who is sexy needs to be confident. They have to believe in what they are doing. Someone with no confidence in himself or herself allows themselves to be easily abused by others, which is not sexy.

Attitude: Someone sexy, in a sense, also has a good outlook on life. They can also take some helpful criticism and get something out of it. No one wants to be around a negative person.

All these attributes combined allow a fairly decent guess as to a person’s sexiness as seen through others eyes. At the end of the test, you’ll get to see how you rate in each attribute in relation to other test takers, as well as your overall sexiness. You will get a nifty graphic to share with others… you can even add your own picture to it, making it a truly unique award!

You can take the test at your convenience on SexyTester for a free and unique perspective on your own sexy mantra.  Other than that…girly, go back and read the Sex Goddess series.  You’re there when you feel it, sweets.  I’m there every moment, every day of my life, even on the first day of my cycle under florescent lights with 90% humidity.  Own it, live it, love it, be it.  It’s not about him….it’s about you.

So grab up that mojo, hit the dance floor and to quote JLo “Jennifer Lopez – On The Floor (Feat. Pitbull)

Need more inspiration? Jennifer Lopez – I’m Into You (Feat. Lil Wayne)

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